‘Being Meaner’ Is All the Rage on TikTok: A Look at the Trend and Its Implications
On TikTok, a noteworthy trend has emerged as many users, predominantly women, announce their intentions for 2025 to embrace the concept of ‘being meaner.’ One such TikTok user, Alexus Bird, shares her resolution stating, “I try to be honest while sparing feelings but some of y’all are still pissing me off, and I’m not dealing with that this year. You’ve been warned.” These declarations often include phrases like “clearly I was not mean enough” or “I was too nice in 2024,” as first highlighted by Bustle. While many of these videos lack specific context, some users specify a target for their newfound assertiveness, particularly towards men. This movement seems to underline a collective desire to end people-pleasing behaviors, which often require individuals to place others' needs above their own. TikTokker Alex Candelario articulates this sentiment, adding, “I’ll be meaner if I have to…
