Negativity Bias: Why We Fixate on the Bad—and How to Overcome It
You’re out on a walk. The sun is out, the birds are chirping, and a pleasant, hazy view is on the horizon. Until, wait a second—is that a piece of trash? It’s a speck of ick amidst a vista of pleasantness; all you’d have to do to ignore it is shift your gaze up a bit. But you likely actually can’t help but focus on that piece of trash for a biological reason called the “negativity bias.” It’s the same reason we’ll tend to gripe about a frustrating encounter with a colleague when asked how our day was (when the day was otherwise fine) and why we tend to remember combative posts on social media. Negativity bias exists for evolutionary reasons and is hard-wired into our brain chemistry. But understanding why these thought patterns exist doesn’t mean we have to let them rule…