Valentine’s Day is often dubbed a “Hallmark holiday,” and while celebrating love is always a vibe, the cheesiness that tends to come with it? Not so much. Sure, giant teddy bears and heart-shaped everything have their fans, but if you—or the guy in your life—prefer to keep things low-key, there are tons of non-cheesy Valentine’s Day gifts for him that still let you say “I love you” without being overly saccharine.
Think thoughtful, not corny. Whether it’s a personalized keepsake, a practical upgrade (because his slippers are begging for retirement), or a fun gift you can enjoy together, there are plenty of options that strike the perfect balance. And yes, I’ve included some of the classics like chocolate and jewelry—but with a modern twist that makes them feel fresh, not cliché.
Ahead are 20 Valentine’s Day gift ideas that are thoughtful but not mushy. Whether you’re a long-established couple or in brand-spankin’-new relationship, you’re sure to find a non-cheesy Valentine’s gift for him—or, perhaps, them—that go beyond the clichés.
Best gifts for him, at a glance:
For travelers: Away The Weekender, $245
For cinephiles: A24 Movie Chocolate Gift Set, $33
For home cooks: Le Creuset Braiser + Lid, $320
For couples: Dedcool “Taunt” Massage Candle, $55
For adventurers: Yeti Sidekick Dry 1L Gear Case, $40
Non-cheesy Valentine’s Day gifts for him
A24 Movie Chocolate Gift Set — $33.00
Upgrade the boxed chocolate to this set from A24 that’s fit for a cinephile. Movie Chocolate is a trio of milk chocolate candy bars inspired by various concessions. There’s “Fizzy Fountain Soda” that pairs root beer and popping candies; “Popcorn & Candy;” and “Salty Peanut Crunch”—a combination of milk chocolate, peanuts, and caramel.
Away The Weekender — $245.00
If you’re shopping for a frequent traveler, Away’s The Weekender is a great gift. It’s made of a water-resistant nylon and sturdy leather straps. I can attest that it’s large enough to hold a weekend’s worth of clothes, and the internal organization system keeps items from jostling around in the bag. For $35, you can also personalize it.
Birkenstock Zermatt Slippers — $100.00
Give the gift of comfort to your valentine. The Zermatt Slippers are shearling-lined and feature a contoured footbed that cradles the feet. Perfect for schlepping from the couch to the kitchen and back again, this shoe is easy to slip on and its rubber outsole makes it suitable for outdoor wear, too.
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Dr. Squatch Expanded Pack — $51.00
Treat him to the ultimate grooming upgrade with Dr. Squatch’s Expanded Pack, which includes natural shampoo, conditioner, and five skin-nourishing soap bars in rugged scents like Pine Tar and Bay Rum.
Boarderie Valentine’s Cheese & Charcuterie Board — $139.00
This beautiful platter packed with fresh meats, delicious cheeses, and assorted nuts and olives arrives on an acacia wood platter, ready to eat and perfect for a romantic evening.
DedCool 01 “Taunt” Massage Candle — $55.00
Let things heat up with this massage candle that melts into an oil. With scents like amber, bergamot, and vanilla, it’s both moisturizing and aromatic.
Lelo Hugo — $189.00
Designed with two separate motors for double the fun, this remote-controlled product features six intensity settings and is waterproof.
Shaker & Spoon The Slow Rush Kit — $26.00
Enjoy cocktail-making at home with this kit that includes all necessary mixers and ingredients to craft an award-winning drink.
Wahl Professional 5 Star Vanish Shaver — $130.00
For the guy who values a close, irritation-free shave, this cordless shaver provides over 100 minutes between charges.
Wüsthof 8” Classic Chef’s Knife — $170.00
A must-have for anyone who loves to cook, this classic knife comes with personalization options, making it a thoughtful and practical gift.
Yeti M12 Hopper Soft Cooler — $275.00
Ideal for outdoor adventures, this durable cooler keeps drinks and snacks chilled and is a perfect companion for tailgating or picnics.
Yeti SideKick Dry 1L Gear Case — $40.00
This handy gear case is perfect for keeping essentials safe and dry, compatible with multiple Yeti bags, and comes in matching colors.
